Love is a magical feeling. It can be directed at children, loved ones and even animals. However, the most striking experience in human life is love for a member of the opposite sex. It often happens that people mistake superficial experiences for deep feelings. The passion that accompanies falling in love is not always a sign of love.
Instructions
Step 1
Love at first sight is more of a beautiful fairy tale than a real situation. Looking at a person, you can see in him features that are close to your own idea of an ideal partner, but not a long-awaited life partner. The birth of love is a process that takes time.
Step 2
Love is preceded by love. This feeling is by its nature very vivid, accompanied by irrepressible passion and idealization of the partner. During falling in love, people do not notice the shortcomings in each other, and therefore cannot adequately assess their feelings. Many, mistaking this feeling for true love, begin to offer their partner a wedding, and when the “rose-colored glasses” fall off in marriage, they are severely disappointed.
Step 3
In successful couples, love flows smoothly into love. This happens when people did not make hasty decisions, and, having waited for the partial extinction of passion, they made it possible for a deep feeling to appear. At this stage, it is important to understand that you cannot rush a person with a decision: a declaration of love should be balanced, not spontaneous.
Step 4
Strong love is based on mutual understanding. If a person wants to solve a partner's problems, he feels his mood swings and is ready to accept it, then the stage of falling in love is behind. Ahead is the development of strong relationships and the building of a joint life. Even if the beloved are not together, there are no longer distances for them. The growing desire to live in the same territory, to share not only bed, but also everyday life, means the birth of a true feeling.
Step 5
You can also notice the emergence of love for a person by the quality of sexual relations. From superficial they move to more comfortable ones. Trying to impress your partner gives way to a desire to please him. More confidential behavior in bed is an indicator of sincere sensuality.
Step 6
All people love in different ways: someone is trying to please a partner, someone to surprise, and someone to protect. That is why only the person himself can catch the origin of strong feelings. No psychology handbook will tell you what you love. Science has not yet proven how falling in love turns into true love, however, at a subconscious level, a person feels something dear, close physically and spiritually only to him alone. The main thing is to carry this feeling through life and keep the ability to love.
