Some men believe that crying is not to their face. Meanwhile, there is nothing unusual in men's tears, because they are ordinary people who experience no less weak emotions than the fairer sex.
Do men know how to cry?
Most women, for some reason, are sure that a man should not cry. Therefore, seeing the mean man's tears, these ladies simply laugh in their faces, calling them a rag. And it would be worth asking yourself - why can representatives of the stronger sex cry? After all, they also experience strong emotions, fear for family and friends, upset and worry. And if a woman can easily afford to "shed a tear" in a given situation, it is much more difficult for a man.
Even an "iron man" is not able to keep absolutely all experiences in himself, sometimes you need to give them a way out.
Human life is very difficult and unpredictable, and sometimes a situation happens in which it is impossible to restrain ourselves. The bitterness of disappointment or the pain of loss turns the soul of any person inside out, regardless of gender. It is worth remembering that men's tears are a sign of strength, not weakness. Only a weak person is afraid to show others his reaction, fearing condemnation or misunderstanding. It is in weak men in adulthood that heart attacks often occur. The nervous system of the "reserved representative of the stronger sex" has been accumulating nervous tension and unspent emotions for many years. Such a load not only eats away at the soul, but also puts pressure (physically) on the heart.
Meanwhile, some men continue to keep their feelings to themselves no matter what.
A man shouldn't cry
Most often, a representative of the stronger sex can cry only if the experience is unbearable for him. For some men, only one tedious tear will roll down, while others will cry heartily. A tragedy that no man can calmly endure is the death of loved ones. Meanwhile, it is on his shoulders that all the worries fall, therefore, gritting his teeth, the man carries this heavy burden, not being distracted by worries. But, after all the troubles are left behind, even the most brutal representative of the stronger sex can give free rein to his emotions. Someone is crying, someone is screaming - the main thing is not to keep the pain in yourself.
Another reason a man can cry is a breakup with his beloved. When he realizes that he is unable to change the current situation, that he is no longer able to fight, emotions take over the mind. Many women, seeing men crying, do not understand that these tears are a sign of great love and tenderness for the chosen one, considering this a manifestation of weakness. As a result, the woman leaves, striking a fatal blow to the heart of the wounded man.
No need to laugh at a man who cried in front of your eyes. This is a sign that he is open, he completely trusts you, and is not afraid to seem funny or stupid in the eyes of his beloved woman.
