Despite the fact that women have successfully mastered all male professions for a long time, they still want to be weak and defenseless at heart. Every girl dreams of a wonderful moment when she is called to marry, but the boys are in no hurry to make such an offer.
The most common reasons for men's indecision, which are written about in women's magazines and are firmly believed by women: the loss of freedom and responsibility for the decision. As for responsibility, this does not upset men at all, and they even rejoice at freedom, given voluntarily. Any normal guy understands and expects the fact that someday he will have to settle down.
When asked about the goals of marriage, women cannot answer specifically. Stereotypes about the "old maid" and that if they are not called to get married, then something is wrong with the girl, they still live in the modern world. The fear of being left alone without a man and raising a child on their own can be called the main reasons why women are forced to ask such questions. A wedding seems to be a natural factor if a couple has been living together for more than one year.
You can understand the fears of a man. They are afraid to see their woman put on weight, not interested in anything and always standing near the stove. They say it as a joke, but as you know, there is a grain of truth in every ridicule.
You no longer have to try to be beautiful in front of a man, you can walk without makeup and in sweatpants, and get ready for work as for a holiday. According to men, this becomes a pattern after the wedding.
Women hope that men will be able to change after the wedding: they will stop playing computer games, they will stop throwing things around the house. If we talk about men, then, on the contrary, they firmly believe that women will never change and will remain such beautiful nymphs as before the wedding.
From childhood, society imposes those traits that the head of the family should have: a stable job, no betrayals, the ability to raise children, not drink and be in good physical shape. Such stereotypes scare men and few agree to such a marriage.
Family life can be a real hell if you do not discuss future joint plans with your partner in advance. But if the expectations of the couple coincide, then you can talk about the wedding, you just have to decide in advance whether those features of the future husband that he already have will not enrage.
