Women are by nature very affectionate and vulnerable creatures. They love to take care of their loved ones and are not shy about expressing their feelings. Men, on the other hand, do not show tenderness in any way, since they believe that it is absolutely not necessary.
I am an old soldier, and words of love are alien to me
Unfortunately, most men live under this slogan and do not want to express their feelings in any way, and women suffer from this, because they want warmth, sincerity and romance. For men, showing tenderness is comparable to weakness, so they prefer not to show their feelings. Strictly speaking, there are explanations for this. The stronger sex is influenced by many genetic and cultural factors.
If you are patient and use feminine tricks, you will be able to teach your loved one to be more attentive and caring.
You should not make a man scandals if he lights a cigarette immediately after making love, does not write you beautiful SMS and does not call you affectionate words. More than 60% of women in various forums complain that their boyfriends are not affectionate. Why did it happen? The behavior of a strong half of humanity is influenced by society. From the very birth of a boy, they are taught that one cannot show one's emotions - this is a weakness. Since childhood, they have been playing war games, fighting and pulling girls by the pigtails. In addition, male rudeness has biological roots. There are more hormones in the male body that are responsible for aggression and cruelty. Consequently, the male sex is more resilient and his primary task is to protect his offspring and territory.
It follows from this that, trapped in the grip of biological characteristics and social rules, it is simply not typical for men to show feelings, but they can learn this thanks to female wisdom.
How to teach a man to show tenderness?
Only with patience and gentleness can you avoid the biggest mistakes. You should not blame your loved one for not being a romantic. This will cause aggression on his part and even more reluctance to do something for you. A man changes if he is encouraged, but even then, the manifestations of tenderness are a little hesitant and need your support. Appreciate these moments.
Show by example how to behave, but don't overdo it. The golden mean is important in everything. Try replacing “sorry that you so rarely say you love me” with words of gratitude and encouragement. In addition to moral support, bodily is also important. An unkind man unconsciously reduces any bodily contact to sexual contact. That is, every touch for him has a sexual meaning. To bring him closer to gentle impulses, it is necessary to destroy this dependence in his mind. It is very important to learn how to please him not only in bed. Give him a massage and from time to time go for all sorts of procedures - this will bring you very close. Spend more time with your loved one and do not skimp on emotions and feelings.
