Intellectually, people understand that it is impossible to please everyone, but deep down, many have an irrational need for others to love them. You can come to a compromise with yourself: become a pleasant person and win the sympathy of most people around you.
Friendship starts with a smile
People have a sign that shows a good attitude and is understandable to everyone - this is a smile. But an insincere and strained smile on duty is hardly capable of expressing your positive attitude - those around you will feel fake. You will have to learn to truly enjoy the world and the people with whom you communicate. Try to notice for yourself all the most positive in others, and then a smile will appear by itself, and even gloomy and unsociable acquaintances will begin to respond to it.
Genuine interest
People are pleased when they are interested. If you will not only listen to your friends, but also remember what they were talking about, and on occasion also clarify whether you still managed to choose a tile for the kitchen, and whether your friend's aquarium fish recovered, in the eyes of others you will become attentive and a sensitive interlocutor with whom it is so pleasant to communicate. Also, feel free to compliment your many buddies. If you spot something noteworthy, whether it's a new purse or winning a poem competition run by a local newspaper, express your admiration. People will be grateful to you.
Down with shortcuts
Get out of the habit of labeling people. A girl with bright-rimmed glasses may not necessarily be a hipster, and a long-haired guy may not be a fan of rock music. But even if they belong to any movement, in the first place, they are people with their own character and habits. If you learn to see the person behind the labels, people will answer you for it in love.
Energize
Few people like to communicate with a sullen, bored-faced beech who answers sentences in monosyllables. One gets the impression that he is tired, does not have the slightest desire to continue the conversation and wants to get rid of the interlocutor as soon as possible. It is much more pleasant to talk with an active and energetic person who looks cheerful and charges others with his positive mood. If you are really tired, it is better to tell your interlocutor directly about this so that he does not think that you are bored of communicating with him, and you strive to leave as soon as possible.
Be polite
Humor is a rather specific thing, and what may seem funny to one person can become an insult to another. It is difficult to thoroughly study the tastes of everyone you know, so be polite and tactful rather than throw jokes around. This line of behavior will please most people.
