Psychologists do not recommend resolving conflicts through the use of force. It is known that ordinary words also have a great influence on people. It is enough to possess special skills of verbal influence in order to emerge victorious even from the most difficult situation.
Instructions
Step 1
Build your confidence. It should manifest itself in everything: in your appearance, behavior and, of course, speech. Exercise for at least half an hour in front of a mirror every day. Try to give your face a confident look. Maintain your posture and do not lower your chin. All your movements must be accurate and precise.
Step 2
Train your speech skills. Start by improving your diction. There are many tongue twisters that help in its development, for example, "Ships maneuvered, maneuvered, but did not fish." Next, develop confidence in your voice. It doesn't matter with what tone you speak, the main thing is that every phrase you say is logical, complete and sound convincing. Try to micro-stress all significant words in the sentence, take your time and don't "swallow" the words. It is important that the audience fully understands what you are saying.
Step 3
Think about what words and phrases will help you prevail in arguments and conflict situations. You should definitely attract the attention of the audience. The constructions will help in this: "Let me say", "Hear me out", "Give me the floor." Try to speak more convincingly, using complex sentences: "I am sure that …", "I really believe that …", etc. Be ready to argue with the interlocutor: "I completely disagree with you", "Sorry, but you are wrong."
Step 4
Behave properly during conversations. Always look into the eyes of the interlocutor. Help yourself with gestures, express emotions with your face. In addition, avoid parasitic words and obscene language in your speech, otherwise the interlocutor will immediately lose confidence in you.
Step 5
Think over the intonation with which you will pronounce certain constructions. For example, consider the sentence “I totally disagree with what you said.” It will be correct to start speaking (main sentence) in an ascending tone, as if going up, and end (dependent sentence) in a descending tone, smoothly or sharply dropping down.
