Harmony is the correspondence of the internal state of a person to his external world - the way of life, actions, environment. If a balance is maintained between the attitude and reality, then the person is happy and calm, otherwise everything ends with neuroses and depression. You will not develop harmonious relations either with the world or with the people around you, if you live with yourself in an imbalance, therefore, you must first find harmony in yourself, equip your inner world so that you can then organically exist in society.
Instructions
Step 1
There is no harmony in a person who does not like himself and does not love himself. If you constantly "gnaw" and harass yourself, then by doing so you yourself discourage the desire to act, dooming all actions in advance to failure. Love yourself and accept yourself with all your flaws. You yourself understand that there are no ideal people. But this does not mean that you have come to terms with your negative traits. Eliminate in yourself what prevents you from living - laziness, pessimism, lack of knowledge. Start working on yourself and improving yourself.
Step 2
Instill confidence in your abilities and back it up with real achievements. Set specific goals for yourself and go towards them, overcoming obstacles and rejoicing in them as a way to prove yourself, your willpower and desire to win.
Step 3
The most useless occupation is fruitless regrets. There is no need to waste time on them. If something does not suit you in your life or in the environment, correct the situation. Find friends who support your views and share your beliefs. Their friendly involvement will help and empower you.
Step 4
Allow yourself to do and do what you like. Even if your main occupation does not require you to show your talents, find yourself a hobby in which they unfold. It often happens in life that we have to do something that we do not really like, so be sure to find a way of self-realization - draw, do crafts, dance, learn a foreign language, jump with a parachute.
Step 5
Fulfill your cherished childhood dream - realized, it can also raise your self-esteem and stimulate the desire to dream and fulfill your dreams. Moving forward, constant development, the desire to live and love - these are the external manifestations of a person who has found harmony with himself, who has found himself.
