Narcissism can be called a disease of modern society. For some people, external beauty not only comes first when evaluating themselves and those around them, it overshadows all other qualities. You should not be like those individuals who worship external perfection and forget about the soul.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not fall for the ideas of narcissism that are increasingly developing in society. Get in the habit of being critical of what others say and say. Don't let corporations that cash in on beauty products manipulate your life. Don't be a slave to consumption and a victim of fashion.
Step 2
Think about how ridiculous the life of people obsessed with their appearance is in essence. First, they spend a lot of effort, time and money just to please themselves and others. Secondly, they are never satisfied with themselves. As soon as you start the race for perfect beauty, this run will never stop. This is due to the inability to achieve perfection and the variability of the fashion for beauty. Third, their lives are spiritually boring and empty. Such individuals do not develop, but only degrade.
Step 3
Love and accept yourself. Try to see individual features in the so-called shortcomings of your own appearance. You are unique, proud of it. Don't compare yourself to anyone. In fact, there are no standards or measures of beauty, different features seem attractive to each person.
Step 4
Focus on other aspects of life besides appearance. Take up work, study, hobbies, sports, build a personal life, get a pet, do charity work, equip your home, travel, do business - whatever you like. There are so many interesting things around, and the world is so huge. Don't be a narrow-minded person fixated on appearance.
Step 5
Do not evaluate others in terms of external beauty or, on the contrary, unattractiveness. Take a closer look at those around you. Agree, whether you are comfortable with them has little to do with their external data. Think about your loved ones or friends. Surely it is difficult for you to objectively evaluate them in terms of beauty, because, having spent a long time communicating with an individual, you stop perceiving him as a picture.
Step 6
Spend your money wisely. When buying cosmetics, jewelry, clothes, shoes and accessories, think about whether you really need this thing, whether it will bring you joy, whether it will make your life comfortable, whether it will add to your health. Or you want to have this product just to get a compliment from friends or distract yourself from some real problems with shopping.
