Loving and responsible parents from the very birth of a child try to follow a simple rule of upbringing: spend half as much money and twice as much attention on a baby. Because attentiveness is the best investment in raising a child.
Instructions
Step 1
To surround the child with maximum attention, of course, you need to make a lot of effort, because for this you need to spend time on him. The time that parents sometimes want to devote to themselves should be given to the baby. However, this time must be spent usefully so that the baby feels the love of the parents, and for this you need to take into account several nuances.
Step 2
Attention is the ability to listen to a child at any age. As soon as the baby learns to speak, he will try to convey to the parents what worries and worries him, pleases and interests. It is very important to listen to everything he says and be an active listener at the same time. You need to ask questions, express your opinion, try to understand the child. Introverted children appear because no one wanted to listen to them.
Step 3
Attention - these are joint activities, which begin with collecting the constructor and puzzles, continue with roller-skating and cycling. Sharing hobbies or hobbies with the child, parents continue to be his friends. This means that he will continue to come to mom and dad with all the questions.
Step 4
Attention is helping a child. Some parents, in an effort to instill independence in their baby, very early require children to perform any tasks alone. And a child, even if theoretically he can cope with the task at hand, spends a lot of effort on overcoming self-doubt and finding the right solutions. Better to ask if your child needs help. It's good when the kid wants to do something on his own. But if he cannot, and the parents are sure that he must learn on his own, the child will stand still, not feeling attention and care from adults.
Step 5
Attention is words of support and approval. Parents need to learn to be attentive to what words the child needs. When he did something himself for the first time and is in a hurry to share his achievement with his mother, it is very important to share this joy with him and to praise. When something does not work out for him, you must definitely tell him how great he is, that he is trying, and support him so that the desire to try does not disappear.
Step 6
Attention is the focus of the parents on the child. The more time and care a child is given in childhood, the more confident he will grow up and be able to give his attention to his children in the future.
