When a difficult situation occurs in life, many give up. They begin to complain about fate and become discouraged. This is by no means worth doing, no matter what happens. The most unpleasant events are an invaluable experience that allows you to rethink your views on the surrounding reality, change priorities, start living in the present, and not ephemeral dreams.
How to get over trouble
When a "black streak" begins in life, many fall into depression, thereby further aggravating the current situation. Obeying the circumstances, they seem to admit in advance that they have lost. And they don't even try to find a way out, deciding that nothing can be done anyway. Such thoughts are the first sign of weakness. You need to fight in any case, no matter what trials life has prepared.
You don't need to set yourself up for the bad, but you also don't need to expect only gifts from life. Any circumstance should be perceived as an experience that forms an attitude towards the surrounding reality.
You should not count on the help and support of loved ones. Yes, when there are sympathetic people around, it's easier to get through trouble. But, on the other hand, this is also a step backward. Support, words of consolation very often give rise to feelings of self-pity. They rarely motivate to take decisive action. The words of loved ones act soothingly, and there is a desire to come to terms with the situation, and not to overcome it. This is why it is often more helpful to try to sort out problems yourself. Of course, you shouldn't refuse help. But also count on her, accusing others of indifference, too. Perhaps the self-elimination of loved ones from solving your problems is the first step towards the beginning of a new, brighter and more fulfilling life, which you will manage yourself.
Don't blame yourself for all the problems. Digging yourself up is the first step to deep depression. It is better to direct your energy towards finding a way out of this unpleasant situation.
Why Life's Difficulties Make People Stronger
Not everyone who has experienced unpleasant events is able to become stronger. Many "break down", start drinking alcohol in order to forget. This is the way to the bottom. Drunkenness only temporarily relieves problems, makes you stop thinking about them. But it does not solve them. Troubles accumulate, "wind up" on top of each other, and every day it is more and more difficult to find a way out. That is why it is necessary to deal with difficult circumstances as soon as they appear. Think about solving problems, look for ways to overcome them, and not hide from them. Only such behavior is capable of transforming a person into a strong, integral personality. And the sooner this happens, the easier it will be to live on. Small troubles that seemed insoluble before will simply cease to be noticed. And big problems will not be perceived as tragedies, but as another way to show your best qualities and gain new experience.
