Women often complain about the infantilism of the stronger sex, about the fact that real men are now less and less common. How should a boy be brought up so that he does not grow up as a "mama's boy"? After all, many mothers raise their sons just like that.
Instructions
Step 1
Infantile, weak-willed men often grow up in families in which a woman is a leader, or in those where the mother is raising a child alone. The main rule for such women is to maintain the authority of the husband and father in the eyes of the child, not to speak badly of the spouse, not to oust the father from the upbringing process, on the contrary, to facilitate his communication with his son. If a boy grows up in an incomplete family, try to involve his grandfather, brother, childhood friend - a man from your environment in the upbringing process.
Step 2
Give your son more independence and freedom from early childhood. Guide your baby gently to help them make the right choices, but don't insist on your own. Always be there to help you if you need it. But never do for your son what he has already learned to do on his own. Teaching the boy everything necessary, often encourage him, repeating: "You will succeed!".
Step 3
Allow your grown son to argue with you, to contradict, to have his own opinion. Let him make decisions even if you know that some of them will turn out to be wrong. Give your child the opportunity to learn from their own experience, to make their own mistakes.
Step 4
Encourage "male" actions, ask your son for help, even if he is still small. You can always find homework that the kid can do himself. Remember to praise and thank your helper.
Step 5
Remember that mom should be affectionate, weak, feminine. The son will learn to pity you, support, sympathize with you, be condescending to the weaknesses of women. Kindness and generosity are the qualities of real men. Show more warmth, love, affection for your son yourself. Do not forbid the boy to cry, urging him to be strong. Tears are given to a person to relieve stress, restore emotional balance. Not crying in childhood, they lead to neuroses and irritability in adult men.
