You don't need to try hard to quarrel with a friend forever, but making a friend out of an enemy is much more difficult. Often an enemy is called a person who causes antipathy and dislike. This does not mean at all that the person is bad, in most cases the enemies are not very familiar with each other. It's just that there are circumstances under which people begin to quarrel. Most of them are unlikely to be able to explain the reason for the enmity.
Necessary
Enemy, patience, friendliness
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, you need to realize the complexity of the situation and figure out whether it is really worth the effort. After all, you can simply limit your communication with this person, forget about his existence, let him continue to pour mud behind his back, because everything bad always comes back like a boomerang. Is it worth wasting time on this person if he has many bad qualities that he does not want to face again and again? The situation is much worse when you have to communicate with such a person. It is unlikely that it will be possible to get rid of contact if the person is a relative or colleague. Do not change your job because of an unpleasant employee and do not divorce your wife because of her cousin.
Step 2
If the decision to make a friend out of the enemy has already been finally made, it is time to begin closer communication with the enemy. If this is a colleague, you can offer him help in a particular situation. When a person has serious problems that he cannot cope with on his own, you need to take the opportunity and help him. He does not expect this at all, considering you his enemy, and will be very surprised at this turn of events. After such an unforeseen situation, he will begin to wonder if you are really his enemy. Thus, the relationship will gradually improve.
Step 3
A good attitude, a pleasant smile and kind words will melt any rudeness. Having a heart-to-heart talk with a person who dislikes you, you can find out why he considers you an enemy. If you choose the right moment when the enemy is in a good mood, you can try to win him over. Make it clear to him that you have nothing against him and do not think that it makes sense to quarrel with someone, since this is wasted time. Show that you are friendly and do not wish anyone any harm.
