Nothing can be less sexy than a man who is unhealthily dependent on his mother. Is your relationship the norm or are you your typical sissy boy? These four signals should be a warning to you.
You call your mom every day
It depends on why you need to contact her. Chances are, you don't often have to deal with constructive technical things, such as what to do with a broken siphon and whoever calls a plumber. Talking to your mom about every detail of your life is effectively building the foundation for the nickname "mama's boy."
Do you take your mom more than once a year on vacation longer than a week?
Naturally, there is nothing wrong with pampering your mom once in a while and letting her keep you company. Also, there is nothing wrong when a vacation with her gives you pleasure, and you are looking forward to it. But, as soon as you start replacing your partner with your mother, or prefer your mother's company to your significant other, it's time to visit a psychotherapist.
Whenever you shop, do you buy your mom a gift?
In fact, do you always buy something for your mom, or almost always when you shop? Does the term "Oedipus complex" tell you anything about it? Your partner will probably agree that a diamond ring suits your mom, but in a normal relationship, you shouldn't be the one giving it to her.
Did you go to the sauna with your mom?
Unfortunately, there is no adequate justification for such perverse practices. Nevertheless, try to talk about this with your psychologist, maybe you can convince him …
