There are many good people around us. But sometimes even good people are insincere. They can show interest, speak words of support, comfort, but deep down they think about something completely different. How to check if the person's support is sincere?
Instructions
Step 1
Think about whether it is so important to check this person. What's the point of this? What will you end up with?
Step 2
If you have determined that this issue is of fundamental importance to you, proceed further.
Step 3
Non-verbal gestures can be the first signals of insincerity. If you notice that during a conversation with you a person touches his face with his hands, covers his mouth with his hand, scratches his nose, looks away, this may indicate a lack of sincerity of the interlocutor. Perhaps this person is really hiding something from you, not saying something.
Step 4
Arrange a small test for the subject. It will be better if this person does not guess anything. Ask him to do something easy for you, but tell him that it is very important. Reassure him that you need his help. Of course, the person who truly supports you will take the time to help you.
Step 5
Ask the person what he sees as a solution to your problem. If he finds a reason to avoid talking, you can assume that he has not passed the test.
Step 6
In some cases, it may be easier to directly ask the person everything that interests you. This will help you understand his motivation, dot the i's, and reach mutual understanding.
