How to correctly and competently build relationships with the mother of your beloved and avoid obvious mistakes and blunders?
Let her talk
No mother in the world will miss the opportunity to tell everything about her children in detail. Give this chance to your mother-in-law, and suddenly you will receive a series of valuable points. Let him show family photo albums, tell the details from the childhood of your dear man.
Give her a sense of value
If you constantly show that you do not need her advice and wisdom, you will successfully find a stubborn enemy. Nothing happens if you ask her family sauce recipe, let her make dessert for lunch, and ask why her "flowers grow so well."
Conspire with her
This tactic should be handled with care like explosive material. Talk to your mother-in-law and tell each other funny stories about her son / your husband. Avoid, however, defamation or too many complaints. Mothers tend to take complaints about their children personally and see them as a sign that they have not raised them well.
Set boundaries
Beware of over-friendship and try to keep your relationship reasonable. If you start addressing her on "you", give the key to your apartment so that she can come at any time without prior notice, it will be very difficult for you to return the lost positions.
Follow the rules
Follow the simple principle according to which your rules apply in your home, and in the mother-in-law's territory, in turn, observe her habits. Support your comments and views on her cooking style, behavior, or anything else.
