A woman, after watching films about love and having read fairy tales, in her imagination creates the image of an ideal man endowed with character traits: masculinity, sensitivity, honesty, and so on. But it is unlikely that you will be able to meet such a man.
Since childhood, women have been drawing the image of their hero. A man must have a fit figure, excellent external data. A perfect man is both courteous and charming, caring, gallant, tactful, attentive, the owner of a sharp mind, a wonderful sense of humor and a connoisseur of female beauty. There is masculinity and strength in him. Naturally, on the first lines of the list of the male ideal is the ability to earn money and generosity. And now, almost every woman tries to try on such a list of conditions on men who are in her close environment. As a result, it turns out that no one fits these parameters. Each applicant has some flaws. And how do you find the perfect man?
You can wait for him for years, so on the path of life and not having met. But more often it happens that a woman expects an ideal, and falls in love with absolutely not a perfect man. Of course, he can meet any points of the requirements of the ideal man, while the woman will bring up other character traits in him herself. Only this is a misconception. It may happen that a lady falls in love with a man who is attractive in appearance, but idle talk. Since love is blind, the woman does not notice the actions that confirm the words. She completely trusts her perfection. As a result, after marriage, a woman's eyes open, she sees that not a single promise has been fulfilled, such a man does not want and does not like to work, and is not adapted to family life at all. Then comes the realization that an ideal person should have other qualities: the ability to manage the household on a par with his wife and earn money, to be a loving and caring father for his children. Failure to meet these conditions will often lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
On the other hand, a wise woman is able to help her man become ideal for her. To do this, you need to be patient, even if a man with the task entrusted to him does not cope well or does not fulfill it at all, praise him for the heights achieved. It's even better to cheer up your man and say that you believe in him. Then a man after a certain period of time can become a perfect husband for you.
