To be first is to be a leader. For a long time, it was believed that girls could not be such - they were not trusted to make responsible decisions. Women even received the right to vote in elections only in the 1920s. Now many people understand how wrong such a mistrustful attitude was. The female half of the population has proven that it can influence the opinions and actions of the people around them. And every girl can become the first, most importantly, to develop leadership qualities in herself.
Instructions
Step 1
Always listen to yourself. Understand what you really want and act in the given direction. Trust your inner voice more than the advice of others. Of course, you need to listen to the opinions of people you trust, but the final action should be yours. Learning to take responsibility for the decisions you make is one of the main traits of a true leader.
Step 2
Believe in yourself and your dream, do not hesitate, go to it, even if those around you consider it insane, and the means to achieve it are unjustified. Remember the many films in which girls became successful and famous, despite the fact that no one believed in the success of their actions. They achieved their goal only because they knew where they were going, not allowing others to destroy their dream.
Step 3
Take your chance and be prepared to take risks. Even if something scares you, do not turn your back on the chance that life gives you. When you decide to make big changes, by doing so, you convince yourself and others that you were right, staying true to your dream.
Step 4
Be yourself. To go forward, you need to remain who you are and not "mimic" the requirements of the environment. Otherwise, there is a possibility of getting lost against the general background, becoming good for everyone, but at the same time uninteresting to herself. When you value your own opinion, then the people around you will follow you.
Step 5
Be the "manager" of your life. It should harmoniously combine all interests: work, sports, relationships, health, creativity. You cannot sacrifice one in favor of the other, then victory in one will be devalued by failure in the other. Make sure that you have enough time and energy for all your plans. But you, for sure, are interested not only in career and study.
Step 6
Communicate. If you want to be always the first and achieve your goals, do not sit on the sidelines. The main thing you need to pay attention to is communication. Be prepared to convince people, argue with them, speak in public, talk on the phone. After all, this is the only way to pave the way to a dream.
Step 7
Be attentive to others, but do not forget about your desires. Go to your goal, no matter what! Only in this case will you educate yourself to be a strong personality. Namely, such people are always the first.
