By getting married, absolutely the majority of newlyweds are sure that they will have a strong, friendly family, which does not care about any hardships and crises. Alas, this is not always the case. As if by the law of meanness, more and more new problems arise. The shortcomings of a loved one, which until recently did not even want to think about, now intrusively climb into the eyes and are insanely annoying. Quarrels arise literally from scratch. And there is a full-fledged family crisis, ending in divorce. How to protect yourself from this? How to avoid a crisis in family relationships?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, try to firmly understand and remember: there are no ideal people. Each has not only advantages, but also disadvantages. Including you. Do not make excessive demands on your loved one, try to see in him only something good, worthy. If something does not suit you, talk frankly on this topic, only with the utmost delicacy, sparing his pride.
Step 2
Remember, marriage is the art of compromise. A family is bad where one side "suppresses" the other. A husband who, with perseverance worthy of better use, forces his wife to act only as he thinks is right, simply because he is a man, all the more so - he uses his strength for this, does not command respect.
Step 3
But in the same way, a wife looks very unprofitable, who achieves her goal by resorting to tears, reproaches, or tantrums, making her husband feel guilty: they say, a healthy man, and did not show generosity, did not yield, upset this weak, defenseless creature! The most reasonable thing is to agree in advance that in this or that issue the main word will be for the one who understands it better.
Step 4
It is unlikely that a wife should climb with her opinion, all the more so - insist on it if the husband is engaged in the repair of electrical wiring or plumbing in the apartment, decided to renovate the gazebo or greenhouse at the summer cottage. In the same way, the husband should be given complete freedom of choice to his wife when she is busy with needlework and cooking.
Step 5
In no case should you neglect the intimate side of life! Of course, even the most ardent passion cannot last forever, over time it “cools down”, taking on more calm and measured forms. And then there are children who take a lot of time and effort. There are problems at work, their own parents get old and therefore get sick more often … No strength, no desire to make love! In a word, somehow imperceptibly the couple switches to the regime once every two weeks (well, if not every two months). And this is a direct path to a crisis. Remember the past passionate nights, try to "resurrect" and diversify your sex life.
