In a person's life, sooner or later, questions or thoughts about his purpose on this planet appear. There comes a time when we ask ourselves: “What am I living for? What worthwhile have I done in this life and what else do I have to do? This introspection has been going on for many years and is often capable of providing answers to many questions. It is difficult to understand life, but how to live so that it would not be offensive for …?
Instructions
Step 1
Goal setting is not just a plan for the next year, but a step that leads a person to development. Reflecting, pondering the end, formulating it, we come to the realization whether this end really justifies the means. Lack of aspiration means unwillingness to develop and not show your nose from the so-called "comfort zone". How long can a person live aimlessly? The goal is a stimulus, the way to it is the feeling of life, the achievement of the goal is self-improvement.
Step 2
Do not be afraid that no “worthy” goal comes to mind at the moment. Relax and dream. Let all the perplexed look at you as you imagine with a blissful smile stroking a magnificent lion during an African safari. Isn't it a goal? If you can't decide what you need, dream about what you currently lack most for happiness. This thought should bring you joy, like a fresh morning breeze and seem to dissolve in your mouth, like melted ice cream. And if you are not dreaming, how then will your dreams come true?
Step 3
Most of all, a person is interested in personal life, any business, as well as moving forward, that is, improvement. Imagine who you want to see yourself in a few years? And in old age? Imagine your grandchildren around you and listen to what they have to say about you. Now think about what you yourself would like to hear from them and other people around you about yourself. This is the axis on which you have to reel your future goals.
Step 4
Visualize in as much detail as possible. There may be several goals, but they should be "exactly what I want." Be cocky. Do not set a goal to buy a new dress, because there is nothing daring about it. The dress can be a small step towards achieving a big, main goal. Think globally, but adequately, and only then break the achievement process into several stages. Fix them on paper, make lists, diagrams.
Step 5
When goals are in place, take action. Try to get as much information as possible about what interests you and what will help you achieve your goal, even if it seems unattainable at first glance. Divide the achievement process into several smaller steps and do not be afraid that it will take time. Remember that the sweetest thing is not the possession of what you want, but the road to it. After all, she is our life. Don't turn it into a pursuit of happiness, but live anticipating and enjoying.
