A socially adapted person is constantly under the yoke of public opinion. Most people go through disapproval, gossip and ridicule. Wiser individuals know how to behave with the discussants behind their backs, but this can really piss off young emotional people.
Instructions
Step 1
There is an opinion that gossip is only about those people who give a reason for this, but unfortunately this is not always the case. You have to face the discussion everywhere: in kindergarten, school, institute, at work, and even in the yard of your own home! There will always be people who condemn someone for a non-standard outfit, behavior that is different from their ideas, and even the chosen way of life. If you want to get rid of the discussion, just stop communicating with the people who do it. Do not share your plans for life with gossipers, thereby denying them fuel for conversation.
Step 2
Of course, being in constant dynamics, it is difficult not to be in sight. They often discuss those who, contrary to generally accepted norms, build their lives without looking back at someone's opinion. Possessing willpower, people are not afraid of outside condemnation, and sometimes even provoke it, positioning themselves as an independent person. However, many people do not like outside discussion, and they try to discourage it. The surest way to avoid being exposed to gossip is to stop standing out from the crowd. By mixing with other people, you will create the appearance of similarity, and you will be paid less attention. This applies to everything: family life, career and friendship.
Step 3
But how to behave when you are being discussed for the purpose of provocation? In this way, a person wants to either draw attention to himself, or annoy you. In the first case, you simply do not need to give in. Do not be fooled by the tricks of a person who is not indifferent to you, if he achieves your location in such a dubious way. The second case is the most dangerous. By letting out an ignoble rumor about you, a gossip can undermine the trust of colleagues, relatives and even a loved one in you. In this case, it is necessary to have a serious talk with an amateur to wash the bones. But be careful, because in an emotional outburst, you can say nasty things to the offender, which will be another reason for discussion.
Step 4
The discussion is not necessarily done with a specific purpose. There are people who are used to doing this because of their character traits. If you are being judged behind your back, do not take it personally. Look, from whose lips the blasphemy rushed. Does one person have the right to judge another? No. So if you're comfortable with the lifestyle you're in, just ignore the gossips. There will always be people who will share your position.
