For some, the real problem is that they cannot complete the work they have begun, they drop everything halfway. This greatly interferes with the achievement of goals. Let's see why this happens and how to avoid it.
Most cases remain unfinished, not because the person failed to complete them, but because he did not even try, or retreated before the first difficulty, immediately dropped his hands. Someone lacks self-confidence, some patience, some time or money.
What is the algorithm for bringing the work started to the end? It is not always enough to gain knowledge on a topic, attend trainings, watch videos. More often than not, old habits and behaviors will prevail. It is impossible to get the result instantly, you need to understand that you need to go towards this gradually.
It is important to keep track of where you are. It is this understanding that will tell you your dynamics. If you see that specific steps have taken you to the right place, then you will be motivated to move on. You must understand that everything that you do depends only on you. Many people are accustomed to blaming relatives, the state and power, money and much more for their failures. But even if the government changes, a new husband will appear, and your style of thinking and behavior will not change, and accordingly, your lifestyle will also remain the same. Another condemning word will cause a storm of protest and a search for the guilty. As soon as you understand and realize this, you will take the first step.
The first step is the ability to understand that a certain result came from your certain actions. Before starting work, you need to assess the situation. Through seminars and trainings, you can see your weaknesses. At this stage, you will understand that specific actions lead to specific results. But until you can act, you lack determination.
The next step is choice. You realize that you always have a choice. You can act in a certain way, there is always a choice to do something or not to do anything, and, depending on your choice, there will be a result. You understand that if you are inactive, the situation will unfold by itself and most likely not in your favor.
The final phase is action. Only persistent and persistent actions will lead you to victory. Never stop at difficulties.
Now you know all the phases and can control them. You can also analyze which phase you are in. Next time, if something doesn't work out for you, and you want to quit, you should look back and see where you are and where your choice leads. Whether you choose to be inactive, or do you still want to keep acting. "If you suffer for a long time, something will work out." And if you quit after the first failed attempt, you automatically set yourself up for failure. If you continue to act, then you have every chance of winning.
