Probably, every person faced such a problem, when everything planned was thwarted in a step from implementation. It seemed that soon everything could be completed, because so much effort had been put in. But no, everything collapses at the last moment.
Instructions
Step 1
Someone will say that the whole point is a lack of willpower and will be right. Many are simply faint-hearted, deceive themselves and break down at the most crucial moment.
Step 2
It also happens that a person with willpower is all right, but there is a subconscious program for not completing the work begun, a certain ban on a successful ending. And there are many such situations. This program can be based on the attitudes learned in childhood, when parents unconsciously tried to teach their child to be like everyone else and not stick out, so as not to seem like an upstart or not be upset after a failure. Fear of disappointment is also a separate item in the formation of a program of unsuccessful outcome.
Step 3
It turns out the following scenario for the development of events: a desired goal appears, efforts are made to achieve it, but just enough to stop one step away from its implementation.
Step 4
The subconscious mind puts forward one and the same model of behavior, which can be conditionally called "try" - "do not achieve." It takes a lot of energy and effort. A person in pursuit of achieving a goal may be in an obsessive state of stress, but subconsciously he understands that in a step from achieving a result he will leave the race.
Step 5
Is there a way out? Undoubtedly, as in any difficult life situation. If a person realizes that such things remain, the completion of which has not been possible in any way for many months, and maybe even years, then one thing is clear here, the law “try” - “don't achieve” works.
Step 6
The first thing to do is to end blaming everything and everyone around you. There is no one to blame for this situation. Also, do not scold yourself, blaming yourself for all failures and blaming you for weak willpower.
Step 7
The second is to study the path to achieving your goal that successful people have passed, perhaps this can give an incentive to stay on track.
Step 8
The third is to answer the question: "What will I get when I reach this goal." Try to identify as clearly as possible all material and mental benefits, you can even write it all down on a piece of paper and re-read it on the way to the completion of responsible work.
Step 9
Fourth - to analyze the internal attitude "try" - "do not reach." Think about her imperfection and believe in yourself. Remove doubts, any phrases containing the union "but" or the thought "what if it doesn't work …". Feel like a winner in advance, try on the crown of the leader. It helps a lot in building a sense of confidence.
