You may have noticed that some people in any company are completely free, while others are completely lost and start talking nonsense. The former, due to their confidence and ease, usually have many friends. To become such a person, you need to know the rules of easy communication.
Instructions
Step 1
Be confident in any event and in any society. Be polite and respect the rules of etiquette to avoid embarrassing situations. Do not hesitate to make new acquaintances, especially among smart and intelligent people.
Step 2
When entering into a conversation, behave kindly, discarding all negativity. Even if outwardly your negative mood does not manifest itself, it will still be transmitted to your interlocutor, and he will close for communication.
Step 3
Learn to find topics for easy communication. It is very important that this topic is close and interesting to all the participants in the conversation. In this case, your genuine interest will inspire trust and respect.
Step 4
Watch your speed of speech - do not chatter and do not splash too much information on the person. Ideally, if you are communicating together, your statements should be only 40%. Listen more and show interest in the interlocutor.
Step 5
Ask only open-ended questions, that is, those that require a detailed answer. This will keep the conversation going. Be sure to wait for the person to finish their thought. And do not rush to ask the next question - you have a conversation, not an interrogation.
Step 6
Compliment others. Try to keep them original, substantiated, and relevant.
