People tend to be jealous of their loved ones. Losing someone you love is perhaps one of the most difficult challenges in everyone's life. And it is quite natural that a person in every possible way tries to avoid such an outcome, consciously or not. Therefore, when they encroach on someone on whom, as it seems to us, no one has the right to encroach, such a sad feeling as jealousy arises.
Sometimes one of the partners deliberately makes the other jealous in order to refresh the relationship. Sometimes it works, but more often it only leads to problems in relationships and conflicts. But sometimes there is no need to provoke jealousy. Often there are people for whom jealousy is an integral characteristic of the personality. Excessive suspicion, constant questioning, mistrust - all this often leads to the fact that the partner gets tired of such a relationship and simply leaves.
The emergence of jealousy. What causes jealousy? How does she transform, grows almost into a manic? Most often, the root of the problem lies in low self-esteem. It is for this reason, from doubts about their positive qualities, pursuing assumptions that every second person is better than himself, from self-doubt and gives rise to a similar state. Fear of becoming superfluous, unnecessary, fear of re-experiencing loneliness.
Manifestations of female jealousy are more associated with the fear of losing their well-being. Most women hide this feeling, trying to suppress it. Another part of the delightful half of humanity go into open conflicts with their young man. That in the first, that in the second case, it does not lead to anything good. Ultimately, one way or another, relations between partners deteriorate, mutual understanding is lost, and as a result, people move away from each other.
How to deal with jealousy? It is best to try to reveal the cards and talk to the man, explain to him what exactly he didn’t like and what feelings he experienced. It is also worth trying to understand your inner world, to understand exactly what reasons make you feel jealous. You need to analyze your internal attitudes and try to change them. This process, unfortunately, is very, very long. Therefore, you should be patient in advance. If, however, attempts to independently understand the problem do not bring the expected result, then the best thing to do is to seek professional help from a psychologist.
