Friends get bored with calls, annoyed with tactless remarks, borrow money and forget to give it back. They come to visit without an invitation, interfere with relations with your relatives. When the cup of patience is overflowing, the desire to get rid of annoying friends becomes overwhelming.
Instructions
Step 1
Before taking decisive action, consider how dependent you are on your friends and whether you are ready to end the relationship. If you are a sociable person and cannot imagine life without noisy companies, it is better to start thinking about with whom you will spend the upcoming holidays, whether you are ready to relax alone, etc.
Step 2
Learn to say no. If your phone never stops, and people around you every now and then turn to you with requests, most likely you are a kind and reliable person. It is inconvenient for you to upset a colleague or even a casual acquaintance without completing his instructions. But sometimes you need to refuse, there is nothing to worry about. They will not love you less, but there will be fewer annoying supplicants.
Step 3
Avoid empty talk at work. Consider whether it is worth having endless debate in the smoking room. There you not only get a fresh portion of gossip, but also move with your colleagues to an informal level of communication. Just look, they will write you up as friends, getting rid of which will be especially difficult. Colleagues, after all.
Step 4
Explain to old acquaintances that you are tired of them. This can be done delicately. You don't have to be rude, you can just say that you need some time to be alone. Life shows that after such statements, the ranks of friends are noticeably thinning.
Step 5
Just change your social circle. Perhaps you need new acquaintances, old ones have exhausted themselves. This does not mean that your friends are worthless people. Everything just has its logical end, including friendship.
Step 6
If all else fails and your so-called friends keep getting on your nerves, just stop answering phone calls. Over time, they will understand that you do not intend to communicate and will leave you alone.
