Life with a jealous person is not always easy: a jealous person may suspect a partner of possible betrayal, find fault with him for any reason, throw tantrums. However, jealousy is called one of the manifestations of love.
Jealousy is not a person's best quality. Both the jealous person and the one to whom they are jealous suffers from it. Jealousy often prevents a person from seeing the truth, treating things calmly and balanced. It causes bouts of anger, causing the person to use force and make trouble. Psychologists say that both women and men are susceptible to jealousy, but they behave differently when jealousy is manifested. Women are more restrained, they tend to take offense at a mistress or a girl who pays attention to a man. Whereas a man almost always blames his partner at first, he can take his anger out on her, and forbids her a lot.
A jealous man can use physical force, sometimes without explanation. Both partners often scandal because of jealousy, find fault with every little thing and inflate a huge quarrel out of it. At the same time, women often begin to cry, but since men cannot afford this even in jealousy, they simply shout at their partner, accusing her of all sins. So the man releases all the negative feelings that have accumulated in him during the time of latent jealousy. Both partners, with manifestations of jealousy, can remain silent until the last, say nothing and not express even the slightest dissatisfaction. But at the same time, a jealous person will not talk with a partner about everyday topics. So, a wife can ask her husband what happened, and he will give her only cold silence. If a woman at the same time does not even suspect about jealousy, then she will not understand what she was guilty of. Very often, after several such cases, one or the second partner breaks off the relationship, since they cannot achieve mutual understanding and honesty, because such silence is sometimes even worse than screams and scandals.
Quite an aggressive form of behavior is numerous prohibitions in case of jealousy of partners. For example, a husband does not allow his wife to leave the house without his knowledge or even just without him, he does not allow meeting friends, starts constantly calling and finding out where the woman is, scolds her for being late even for 15 minutes. In general, he behaves like a real tyrant. This behavior is accompanied by constant reproaches: she painted her lips too brightly, put on a revealing blouse, talked too nicely with a neighbor, cooked dinner in the wrong way. A partner can find any excuse to hurt his soul mate, make her feel guilty, and weaken her self-confidence. This type of jealousy is associated with the weakness of the jealous person himself, his lack of confidence in his own strengths.
If you live with a jealous person, you need to explain to him that you don't need anyone else, show calmness and respect first, so that the person feels your love and care. It is imperative to talk about the reasons for jealousy, let the person speak out. But if this attitude does not help, it is better not to suffer and get away from the jealous person if his behavior prevents you from living and expressing yourself.
