Treason. There is so much pain and bitterness in this word. How many people, so many opinions exist on the fact of treason. The attitude of men and women to this fact is quite different.
Cheating is not always the destruction of relationships, as is commonly believed. Not every person who has been cheated on is ready to say goodbye to an unfaithful partner. The attitude towards cheating in women and in men is quite different.
Women's view of the problem
Many women are acutely aware of a man's betrayal. They scream, swear, pack their things, defiantly leave, cry, but rarely leave forever. This is how the female character works - it's easier for girls to forgive treason. Forgive, but don't forget. Cheating is perceived as betrayal, but a woman's brain is more flexible and is able to forgive the fact of betrayal. Although there are categories of girls who are interested in details. They need to know what kind of conditions pushed the man to such an act. And depending on the facts and all the circumstances, someone leaves, and someone forgives and lives on.
Since men are naturally polygamous, it is easier for women to forgive their betrayal. Regardless of how much it brings hurt and pain. Psychologically, every second girl is ready for the fact that her companion can make a mistake and cheat on her. The very fact of betrayal, although it greatly undermines trust, eventually fades from memory.
If a loved one has changed and this betrayal was not episodic, many girls prefer to leave such a relationship. They already have no love, no trust, nothing positive. And women are looking for affection, care and love in a relationship. If many are ready to forgive an accidental betrayal, then only those who have a really strong character or special circumstances will have a long-term relationship.
Male view of treason
Men are very negative about cheating. First, this is a big blow to their pride. Because they expect loyalty, devotion and love from a woman. And treason, in their opinion, is not just a betrayal, it is not a proof of love. Secondly, according to most men, women should be naturally monogamous. If a man has the right to make a mistake (betrayal), then a girl cannot stumble like that in principle. This immediately belittles a woman in the eyes of a man. In addition, if a man forgives the betrayal of his beloved, then his trust is lost for a long time. Thirdly, it is more difficult for the stronger sex to express their emotions. They cannot let off steam with tantrums like women. Men accumulate negative emotions in themselves until they "explode" at one point. And cheating causes too much negativity. This is why many men just walk away from traitors.
