Love is the foundation of life. All people strive for it, consciously or not. True love is a gift from God, it is impossible to deserve it, it is impossible to make another person love. Its nature is inexplicable. Love comes when a person is ready for it.
Love is such a feeling that arises suddenly, it defies explanation. It is not for nothing that the people have added the following proverb: "He is not good for good, but good for good". Love is one of the strongest and brightest feelings, it can radically transform a person and make you happy. The desire to love and be loved is so great in people that they, in the hope of getting at least a small part of it, are ready for a lot.
You can earn it, but it will not be love, but gratitude. A psychological substitution takes place, and as a result, the person gets not at all what he wanted. Disappointment sets in, reproaches, resentment and jealousy arise, which can lead to real despair.
Many people ask the question: "What to do to find the love of your life?" This is a complex issue, which is influenced by many factors, however, certain rules of behavior can be identified that will help bring the desired meeting closer.
Self improvement
Do not waste time, do not wait for "that very moment", love cannot be planned. It comes into our lives at the moment when we are ready for it. Take care of yourself, fight bad habits, negative thoughts, despondency and the result will not be long in coming.
Patience
If you are alone while you are alone, do not despair. It is not yet time, in the life of every person there is necessarily a place for a light feeling.
Compassion and help to other people
God helps through people, so do not refuse those who ask you for help. Then someone will help you too.
God is love, only he can help in finding it. For this you need to work, work on yourself spiritually. Attracting love with catchy outfits, money, merit, magic will not work. In return, you will receive her cheap, vicious fake, disappointment and deep mental anguish.