A loser is a person-misfortune, a loser, one who, as they say, “thank God for everything forever”. Often people themselves choose such a life, and then do not even try to change something. But if you are sure that you cannot continue to live like this, start acting.
Instructions
Step 1
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and lowering your self-esteem. If you complain day after day about life, circumstances, people, you will never succeed. Instead of explaining why you're not doing something, look for an opportunity to take action.
Step 2
Don't compare yourself to others. Each person has his own circumstances, opportunities and his own life. You do not need to focus on other, more successful people - this will not add strength to you. Analyze yourself and your life. Set goals and reflect on what you have done to achieve them. To cheer yourself up, think about what you have changed in yourself during the current day, where you have become better. If you don't find the answers, then plan to accomplish something small the next day to praise yourself for.
Step 3
Be generous. Let go of the stereotype of “giving and losing”. On the contrary, you gain and become better in the eyes of others, and their opinion of you is very significant. By being generous, you will achieve respect for yourself.
Step 4
Do not do what is not satisfying. A person who does something due to circumstances, not desire, initially feels unhappy. Although you are most likely used to this situation, it needs to be changed. Think seriously about how you can diversify your job or find another. Don't drop this idea just because you're unsure of success. If it's difficult to tune in to change, ask your friends and family for help.
Step 5
Start appreciating your time. The problem with losers is that they let life go by. They don't notice that time is running out forever. Instead of complaining that time is running out and you are still doing it, make good use of every minute. Don't let yourself relax until hard work becomes part of your personality.
Step 6
Praise yourself for your accomplishments. Notice the smallest successes and be proud of yourself. Don't let others belittle or criticize you. Only listen to those who know and love you. Remember that people tend to judge by what they see, and even if not everything works out for you, only you know how much effort your success costs you.
