It is always interesting to know how the opposite sex treats you - this question has been of interest to us all our conscious life. Fortunately, in times of abundance of information, it's easy to find out, because many guys now talk about what a dream girl should be. And every girl really wants to be perfect, at least for her prince.
An analysis of the records made by representatives of the strong half of humanity in Runet allows us to draw a general portrait of an ideal girl.
The first thing guys want to say is that for them many girls are attractive outwardly because they are just different. As one blogger writes, "even their skin is different." No wonder they say that women seem to men to be aliens from another planet. In the language of psychologists, guys see a riddle in girls, which is good.
The good news is that the requirements of guys for an ideal girl are not as high as it might seem at first glance. As for appearance, few people want to see Marilyn Monroe next to them. After all, then he will have to comply! Therefore, everyone is looking for a pair "for themselves". However, many note that outwardly they should like at least something in the girl. Someone writes about a beautiful oval of the face, someone about a narrow ankle, or vice versa about strong legs, beautiful skin or chest. That is, there must be some kind of zest in appearance.
Some people write that they don't like tattoos on girls. Rather, they like to look at them at strangers, but so that "his" girl would leave all these intimate details of the body only for him. They say that this is the subconscious desire of the ancient man for the sole possession of the female. We hope that this is not for everyone. At least some people don't like it when a girl turns her body into a "billboard".
Now about the inside. A man is used to thinking that he should be the first in everything, which is why he does not like too smart girls. And when she has three higher educations, English courses, a music school and a driver's license, it is better to talk about this gradually, so as not to shock her hero, who may not be able to reach these parameters. Otherwise, he will think that she is smarter than him, and this will offend him. But yoga or fitness classes are very welcome, although bloggers do not explain why.
Every man has an ineradicable desire for comfort and coziness, therefore, for an ideal girl, it is desirable to be able to decorate her nest and cook at least a few decent dishes. But that at the same time he in no case recovered. Although if you look at young men on the streets of our cities, many have decent tummies. But this is more from beer, and not from high-calorie food. Who knows?
Another wish that girls often forget is to be considerate of the boyfriend. Listen to him when he wants to talk, notice a bad mood and be able to calm down, raise his tone. Noticing when he is used to going to bed - sooner or later. And even if he is an owl, and she is a lark, do not make him go to bed at 9 pm. Some people have such a strange requirement for the ideal. Many girls think that they should be attentive to them: fulfill any whims, give flowers and gifts. Apparently, everything should be mutual, because guys are people too. They also want warmth and care, then they will strive like butterflies to the light where they feel good, with whom they feel good.
It is very important that the girl has the same or at least similar interests with the guy. After all, if he loves football, and she invites him to the ballet all the time, it looks at least strange. Then, as the guys write, "and there will be no talk." And communication is an important part of a relationship.
In one of the blogs there is a statement that fully describes the definition of an ideal girl: a guy needs a girl who is not tall or small, not rich or poor, not beautiful or an ordinary girl - he needs his own girlfriend. The word "own" was written in large letters. Apparently, this is the girl who understands him in everything and accepts him for who he is.
