The ideal is something unattainable and unreal. At least it seems so at first glance. However, the criteria for the ideal can be quite attainable with some effort and advice from professionals.
For example, what kind of girl is ideal? Who gives such a definition and who can correctly set points on the scale of "ideality"? That's right - no one, because everyone has their own ideal criterion. However, there are generally accepted things that girls should pay attention to if they want to get closer to the generally accepted criteria of the ideal.
First, about the appearance, because they are still greeted by their clothes.
And let's start not with outfits, but with … a smile. Some people advise exercising in front of a mirror to achieve the perfect smile. But will she be sincere? People are very sensitive to falsehood, and an artificial smile will only scare away. It is important to remember that a sincere smile adorns a girl better than any cosmetics, because it comes from the heart. Smile at the sun in the morning, a beautiful flower, enjoy the blue sky and clouds - then a good mood will become your habit, and your smile will be beautiful.
No matter how stylish the clothes are, if a girl does not have the correct posture, no couturier will save. Therefore, you will have to work hard on the correct posture: a straight back, an easy gait, not too wide steps, a slightly raised chin. If a girl is accustomed to stooping her back, she will have to work on strengthening her back muscles.
As for the clothes - first of all, they must be selected according to the weather. It's a shame to look at freezing girls with red noses when they want to look fashionable and put on spring clothes in the bitter cold. The credo of the ideal is naturalness in everything: in cosmetics, in the selection of the image and in the entire appearance. Perhaps only teenagers can afford the glamorous look of a doll or a member of an informal group. A serious girl observes the principle of the golden mean in everything - this is the middle name of the ideal.
Now about the inner content, without which the outer is nothing
The ideal girl is a very good conversationalist. And who can be called a good conversationalist? That's right - someone who knows how to listen. But not false, not pretending to listen: she knows how to listen and hear. And he can also insert a remark in time without interrupting the interlocutor. And if you follow the theory of the golden mean, then the ideal girl also knows how to speak. She just speaks when they are ready to listen to her, that's all.
Keeping up with those around you is also important. Some people like to show off their erudition to show how much they are taller than this or that person - this approach is not for ideal. But it is also not worth showing yourself as a silly person who does not understand the things that others are talking about. If you are not guided in something, it is better to keep silent tactfully. We cannot know everything, but we must respect ourselves always and everywhere. The same can be said about jokes: they need to be able to adequately perceive and respond to them with humor. A cheerful person is always welcome in any company.
Rumors and gossip. Often, girls like to discuss mutual acquaintances, "wash the bones" of teachers and complain about a boyfriend or parents. And they don't consider it to be anything special. However, thoughts and words are living energy that we send to the people we are talking about. Think about what kind of energy comes from you? Some of the greats said that complaining about relatives is like betraying them. Surely the ideal girl does not want to see herself in the role of a traitor. On the contrary, she notices only the good in people and with sincere pleasure says compliments.
Often, girls attach great importance to small dates and events, they are ready to celebrate their every step and force loved ones to arrange grandiose events about this. And they are often offended that someone forgot to congratulate them on the “cat's birthday”. For an ideal girl, everything is different: she understands that the world should not revolve around her alone, and that other people also have their own interests. She will be very clever if she tries to find out about these interests and takes them into account in her plans.
About "hostess"
Any girl is the future mistress of her nest. You should not completely turn into Cinderella and clean up and bake pies all day. However, the ideal girl can still cook several dishes. He also keeps order in his room. This skill will be very useful in the future, because everyone wants to live in an ideal nest. And if the girl also knows how to organize others to help herself with household chores, then it will be just perfect.
Just about a person
Don't think that the perfect girl is something special. It is important just to be a real person who has an understanding of the meaning in everything: in actions and words, in deeds and intentions, in ideas and in life. Nonsense is the enemy of any person, it leads to degradation. Therefore, a harmonious combination of external and internal will lead directly to the ideal.
The wise say that it is not difficult to become an ideal person, but it is not at all easy for them to remain. Therefore, ideal behavior should become a habit and become reflective. Then we can say that you have achieved what you were striving for - the ideal. Remember the song from the movie about Mary Poppins: "Oh, what a bliss, to know that I am perfection, to know that I am the ideal"? Perhaps this will inspire you to achieve your goal.
