Failures seem to haunt individuals, and they gradually get used to the idea that success is passing by. Such people believe that plans will surely collapse, and this belief is based on personal experience. To turn the tide, you need to understand the reasons for what is happening and learn to act differently.
Instructions
Step 1
Watch the characters from The Diamond Arm. As you watch, write down every instance of failure on a piece of paper. Analysis of the film will help you understand how to get rid of bad luck.
Step 2
Analyze every failure of the heroes of the film and think about how the person should have acted for everything to go differently. Imagine yourself as a director who needs to remake a film in a different scenario in order to turn losers into superheroes who have everything under control. Review each episode according to the list you made in the first step.
Step 3
Write down a list of areas of life or specific activities in which you cannot be successful. It is important to notice the system: for example, you are constantly late for work and you have to make excuses to your boss. This indicates the absence of the habit of leaving the house in advance. Likewise, you can miss your plane, an important meeting, etc. Inappropriate habits are at the root of most failure.
Step 4
Think about what actions you need to change. Conduct analysis similar to analyzing a film.
Step 5
Start developing new habits - it will change your whole life. Do not tackle everything at once, so as not to fall into despair from the amount of work ahead. If you don't know where to start, think about which direction to make one change, the consequences of which will change your life beyond recognition. If you were late everywhere, suddenly you will start to be on time. One change leads to this - planning time with a margin in case of traffic jams, etc. Come early everywhere, and use the extra time to tidy up your clothes, shoes, hair, and to read inspiring, educational literature. Make no exceptions and people will start treating you differently, which is just one life change.
Step 6
Learn to see alternative scenarios in any situation. For each of them, think over the possible risks and prepare for them in advance. When you are going to your mom’s birthday, don’t expect to buy flowers at the usual place where grandmothers always sell. Consider what will happen if a downpour begins and disperses all merchants. This is one of the alternative options that must be calculated in advance so as not to be late for your birthday and come with flowers. This attitude towards life will save you from bad luck.
