You and your soul mate are together all the time: on vacation, on vacation, during weekends and holidays, you even have one hobby. But there comes a period of satiety, when at times you are not interested or even unpleasant to be together. This is a completely normal state for many couples, you just need to properly allocate time with each other.
Instructions
Step 1
Both women and men need to rest from their half. Although most often it is men who need such rest, and women may even be offended by young people for spending time away from them. Resting from a person is a completely natural and necessary process. It is especially important for people who are calm and often secretive: they just need a recharge, and not only from a loved one, but in general from all contacts. In another case, a person needs to change his social circle for a while: instead of a beloved girl or boyfriend, talk to his friends, relax in the circle of a noisy company in order to discharge himself and escape from everyday contacts.
Step 2
How to arrange a vacation from your soul mate? To do this, you do not have to leave for a whole week or spend your holidays separately from each other. One has only to divide the space in the house and the time into personal and joint for each person. If you live separately from each other, do not be offended by your significant other because he or she does not want to see each other every day. Not only can a person have his own worries and problems that he simply does not want to talk about, but he also needs time for himself, time that he can devote to his interests and pursuits.
Step 3
If you live together, agree that you will sometimes be separated from time to time. For example, everyone will have their own friends or activities that your couple does not need to get to know. Get used to the idea that even in marriage, people should not be a single whole, which does not have their own interests - you are still separate people, so you can spend your free time at least sometimes away from each other. So, it is quite reasonable to spend an evening with friends, walk alone, read a book in silence, watch a match with friends without sad sighs over your ear, go fishing or play a computer game. A girl will be much more comfortable at a bachelorette party with her friends if her boyfriend is not around and listens to women's conversations and cute gossip.
Step 4
Set aside a common area in the house for spending time together, but at the same time equip an area for each of you. This could be a favorite chair, a writing desk used for creativity, or a quiet corner where you can read or draw. Respect each other's space and stay out of your partner's “comfort zone”.
Step 5
Resting from a partner, both the guy and the girl get a kind of relaxation of the accumulated and already familiar emotions. They seem to plunge into another life, are charged with a different mood and then they can take a fresh look at their own relationships. If you use such breaks in communication constantly, then you will never get fed up with your relationship, you will never bother each other. Rest from a partner is one of the most important laws of strong relationships, understanding and respect for a partner.
