“They are greeted by their clothes, they are escorted by their minds,” says a well-known proverb. Of course, you shouldn't take it too literally. Indeed, along with the ability to dress neatly, with taste and appropriateness to the situation, it is very important to “present” yourself. In other words, you need to pay special attention to behavior. Especially in a new, unfamiliar company. People in such a situation make mistakes, behave far from the best. And how should one “present” oneself correctly?
Instructions
Step 1
Remain yourself. An attempt to portray not who you really are, but a more significant, important person, in the vast majority of cases, will lead to the exact opposite result. People are usually quick to recognize falsity. And in this case, of course, you will not get any respect. Kipling said very well about this in one of his poems: "Stay simple, talking with kings, stay honest, talking with the crowd …".
Step 2
Deal with excessive shyness. Within certain limits, this quality is even useful, but everything is good in moderation. Suggest to yourself: "Because I talk to someone or ask a question, the world will not turn upside down!" Your fears that you will find yourself in an absurd situation, make yourself ridiculous, are not based on anything. You are no better or worse than others. An ordinary person with his own merits and demerits.
Step 3
Try to keep your clothes and shoes comfortable and free of movement. This is very important in order to feel confident. Do not repeat the mistake of the princess from the movie "Roman Holiday", who stealthily took off her tight shoes, and then could not put them on in any way, and as a result found herself in an awkward position.
Step 4
Also, pay special attention to clothing - it should fit you, emphasize the dignity of the figure, while masking the flaws. Don't try to make it super expensive. This is far from the main thing.
Step 5
When you find yourself in an unfamiliar company, you should not immediately draw attention to yourself. But one should not timidly huddle in a corner either. Perhaps it is best to stick to the "golden mean".
Step 6
Look at people first, listen to what they are talking about. If we are talking about things that you are well versed in, feel free to join the conversation. Try to only avoid a categorical, categorical tone, even if you are absolutely sure that you are right. Better to start your remarks with the words: "If I am not mistaken" or "It seems to me."
Step 7
Be sure to try to make your voice sound polite, friendly. Smile sincerely, from the heart. And then you will almost certainly make a good impression by “presenting” yourself in the best possible way.
