Shyness as a character trait manifests itself between the ages of 4 and 7. Sometimes its level is so high that it negatively affects the subsequent life of the child.
Concentrating on the physical and mental upbringing of the child, parents do not think about the fact that the child also needs social growth. Preschool childhood is characterized by the special emotionality of children, which can be caused by the awareness of responsibility for new social roles.
First, a child's shyness is determined by his expectation of an adult's assessment. A casual statement by a kindergarten teacher that has a negative connotation can result in a child's low self-esteem. To teach the kid to pay less attention to the categorical nature of adults, it is necessary to teach him the criticality of thinking, as well as an adequate analysis of the situation.
Second, the child may be constantly haunted by the expectation of failure. This situation can be prevented by replaying a potentially negative situation. This should be done in a calm atmosphere alone with the child. Alternatively, analyze with your baby people who are successful in a particular area. Perhaps the preschooler will set him up as an example and be able to overcome those qualities that prevent him from following the ideal.
Thirdly, the child is often afraid to attract the attention of an adult. Seeing this, remember that in this situation it is necessary to devote more time to working out dialogue communication. There are many techniques for mastering this skill, from verbal exercises to role-playing games.
Fourthly, one should be wary if the child does not let anyone into the intimate-personal zone. Its diameter is approximately 100 centimeters. To combat this, engage your child in creative activities. It is best to keep your child busy with dancing or similar activities that involve direct contact with people.
Fifth, give your child independence. Start with simple things, encourage him: make his own bed, dress, tidy up the room. Present the child with the feasible requirements for him. When the baby realizes that he is coping with his duties, this will give him confidence in his strength and confidence in future endeavors.
