Most people often think about how they live. They begin to notice shortcomings, holes in life, after which they conclude that it is time for them to finally find happiness. Having come across this thought, they are looking for ways to change their life, not noticing that, first of all, they need to change themselves.
Instructions
Step 1
Do the business that appeals to you. Dissatisfaction with life is brought, first of all, by work that does not give joy and satisfaction. Think about what you would really like to do, what you would like to give to the world. Self-realization is the most important condition for happiness.
Step 2
Prioritize. Torn between a career and the birth of a baby, and, therefore, work and family, no one will like. Decide for yourself what is more important, what will bring great joy, what will bring real pleasure. Do not adapt to public opinion, do not follow the lead of family and friends. This decision lies solely with you. After accepting it, life will become much easier and more pleasant, you will learn to allocate your time in favor of a priority moment in life for you.
Step 3
Communicate only with people you like. You should not give life energy to those who are not worthy of it. Surround yourself with real friends, those who will always understand and support you. Such people will become your support and help in any situation. Knowing about their existence, you will feel more confident and much happier.
Step 4
Don't attribute a permanent nature to failure. Thinking that the broken cup is just one of a series of setbacks destined for you, you are deliberately incurring future failures. Think positively. After all, this is just a mug, and it has nothing to do with the fact that, for example, your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend went wrong at the same time. It is far from your falling out of hand. Learn to accept failure, learn from it, and move on.
Step 5
Take time for yourself. Giving your whole life for the good of others will make you famous in certain circles, but you will remain unhappy. While you enjoy this approach, try to take care of yourself a little more. Do what you have dreamed of for a long time, visit the city or country you would like to go to, buy a thing for which you could not allocate funds from the budget. In other words, be selfish. Sometimes it doesn't hurt.
