Of course, love at first sight happens. But not all of them. If Cupid's arrow still has not struck you and there is practically no hope for it, take a look around. Maybe an object worthy of your respect and love is somewhere nearby?
Instructions
Step 1
To love a person, you must first learn to respect him. If you have a fan or are just looking for someone to put your eyes on, try to find the virtue in him.
Step 2
Is he smart, handsome, generous and rich? The combination of all these qualities is practically not found in real life. Therefore, choose for yourself the one that will be the most important for you, and start looking for it in the people who make up your close environment.
Step 3
Write a detailed list of positive and negative human traits and rank them in order of importance. Thus, it will be clear which disadvantages (if there are certain advantages) you can put up with, and which you can never accept.
Step 4
To fall in love, to fall in love, and then not to sob over your choice, you need to be guided not so much by feelings as by the arguments of reason. See how the object of your attention relates to children, try to find out what kind of relationships reign in the family with his parents. If your chosen one does not shun dirty work and does not run headlong from small children, then this person is reliable. And this is also a reason for the emergence of love.
Step 5
It is possible that you already love someone, however, you yourself do not know about it. For example, if you have been in contact with a male friend for many years (of course, if he is not gay), it is worth wondering if you are really good pals. It is possible that you will become a wonderful couple, just until now both hesitate with recognition, so as not to destroy the established relationship.
Step 6
If you live with a man, but think that there is no trace of love in your union, before letting him go forever, think seven times. Perhaps you will understand how dear he was to you only when the front door closes behind him.
