A blue stocking is called a girl who does not attach much importance to how she is dressed, practically does not recognize cosmetics, does not try to use her feminine charm and does not have enough experience with men. You can change the situation by working on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Begin to take better care of yourself. Take the time and energy to take care of yourself every day. Do not neglect home treatments for your skin, hair and nails, and visit a beauty salon regularly. Do massage, body wraps. Improve your figure. You don't have to be on a strict diet to be lean and fit, but exercise is essential. Join a fitness club, go to the pool, go to yoga or Pilates. Taking care of your beauty will help you not only become more attractive, but also reveal your femininity.
Step 2
Pay attention to how you hold on. Try to make your gestures more feminine and your gait graceful. Dance classes and regular training will help you with this. Strengthen your back muscles for correct posture. Your manners say a lot about you to those around you. Representatives of the stronger sex on a subconscious level feel when a girl accepts and uses her femininity.
Step 3
Work on your self-esteem. If you are not confident in yourself, it will be difficult for you to convince a man of your attractiveness and sexuality. Learn to love, appreciate, and accept yourself. Focus on your own merits. If there are any traits in your character or appearance that you regard as flaws, work on them. What cannot be changed is better to accept and love. Remember that this is part of your personality, and try to portray the flaws as features.
Step 4
Try to communicate more with members of the opposite sex. It is better if you have practice in dealing with men. If you find it very difficult to get close to a young person, treat him as a friend, not as a potential partner. Learn to see the personality in guys, and it will be easier for you to build communication with them.
Step 5
Revise your wardrobe. If you want to get rid of the blue stocking stigma, you need to dress more fashionably and relaxed. Just don't cross the line when sexuality turns into vulgarity and vulgarity. Choose feminine outfits and silhouettes that flatter your figure.
Step 6
Lead an active social life. Attend cultural events, go to parties, meet with friends more often. Don't sit at home. It is not enough to change your image and get rid of complexes. To get rid of an offensive nickname forever and find your personal happiness, you need to take initiative.
