Even the most generous man has an instinct of ownership. For example, if some thing is too valuable for him (got it with hard work, a memento from a loved one, etc.), he will never give it away! And this is not at all an indicator of greed, but a completely natural, reasonable behavior. But what if this instinct is too strong? How should you behave to overcome greed?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, learn to clearly distinguish between the concepts of "greed" and "frugality". There is absolutely nothing wrong with reasonable frugality. In the end, even the unforgettable Plyushkin did not immediately become a rabid miser! For a long time, according to Gogol's apt clarification, he was just “wisely stingy,” and his behavior did not cause any complaints.
Step 2
Learn to be "wisely stingy" too. This means: spending money and disposing of your property sensibly, wisely, avoiding unnecessary waste and waste, but not sinking into petty greed. In short, behave like a reasonable, economical person.
Step 3
Remember, things are just things. If you are asked for some trifle, it is quite possible to part with it. The loss is small, but you can bring great joy to a person! But, of course, everything should have a measure, and you can refuse with a clear conscience if it comes to an expensive item, and it can be dear to you both in the material and spiritual sense, for example, if it is a memory of someone or about something. Just try to make the refusal tactful, not offensive.
Step 4
If you are usually thinking: "buy, or not buy?" hesitate long and painfully, sometimes you can deviate from this rule. Tell yourself: "You can't save all the money anyway!" and buy the item you like. This, by the way, is an excellent prevention against greed.
Step 5
Try to get into the habit of giving gifts to people you like at least occasionally. Even if it will be the simplest, cheapest souvenirs, beautiful postcards with pictures. It is not the amount that is important, but the very fact of the gift. After all, the same Plyushkin, completely crazy with greed, would rather strangle himself than do this! And you will be pleased, and the people who have received these signs of attention from you.
Step 6
Remind yourself of the sad, but immutable truth: all people are mortal, and you cannot take wealth with you to the next world. Few people want to be remembered as a soulless curmudgeon!
