The hardest part of achieving what you want is to determine exactly what you really want. We often pass off social stereotypes as our desires and cannot understand why they are not being fulfilled. But if you have already passed this difficult stage and have clearly defined your true desires, follow a little advice and bring them closer to implementation.
Instructions
Step 1
The first thing you should do is learn to visualize. Visualization is very important at all stages of achieving your goal. It can also be used at the moment when you are trying to understand whether this is the goal and yours, or not. Just try to imagine in all colors and details what will happen when you reach your goal. If you experience joy, satisfaction, pleasure, then undoubtedly this is your dream and goal, and not dictated from the outside. When presenting a goal, you can create a wish map or simply find a picture of the thing you want and place it in a prominent place. For example, if you dream of a car of a certain brand and color, you can find a photo of it, print it and hang it in plain sight, or make it a screensaver on your desktop.
Step 2
Learn to get rid of negative emotions. Leave all your fears, worries and anxieties in the past. Do not cling to negative memories and emotions, they will steal energy and strength from you. Learn to forgive and forget hurt feelings. Try to perceive and accept all situations that happened to you earlier as an experience, and not as obstacles to achieving the goal. For example, you tried to start your own business, but your partner let you down, and nothing worked out for you. You are angry with your partner and do not trust people. Afraid to start again. In such a situation, you should at least mentally forgive the person who interfered with you, this does not mean that you should become best friends, just let go of such negative emotions as resentment and fear. Analyze the situation that happened and do not make such mistakes, but do not stop and do not live in the negative.
Step 3
Find your way to reach your goal. All people and their lives are unique. You can admire other people and follow their example, but you should not imitate them in everything. You should not try to repeat someone's success story, most likely you will not succeed, you live in a different time and in a different place, your knowledge, upbringing and resources are different, and the world itself has already changed a lot. Be inspired not by the way of the other person's success, but by his life convictions and his belief in yourself and your idea. Find something unique that will help you achieve your goal. For example, one pretty simple girl went out of her way for years to become like fashion models and marry a millionaire, but realizing her mistakes, she found herself a millionaire, remaining herself, simple, sweet and pretty. As it turns out, not all millionaires want model wives.
Step 4
Try to live a healthy lifestyle. It's not just about good nutrition and exercise. Adjust and harmonize your life. When you are doing well, you live right, you have more energy that you can direct towards achieving your goal. Everyone has their own correct lifestyle, as well as the rhythm, but try to follow the general rules: do not drink alcohol, do not use drugs, do not smoke, do not lead a wild lifestyle. Eat right, get enough sleep, drink plenty of water, exercise or at least just walk, find a hobby that relaxes you, or practice spiritual practices. At first glance, all this may seem difficult to someone, but when your life is in harmony, your strengths and energy increase, and the possibilities for achieving goals themselves go into your hands.
Step 5
Don't get excited about a lot of things at the same time. Find your own rhythm. Every person has one, you just need to study yourself and your body. Observe your activity, it will not be superfluous to keep a diary for some time. Some people are good at doing things during the day and planning in the evening. Someone cannot do business in the summer heat, and someone simply cannot stand the period of winter cold and colds. For some, performance depends on the phases of the moon or the female calendar. Find a time when you can best focus on your business and make the most of it.
