The need to make a choice arises for each person several times a day. Often we make momentary decisions about where to go, what to wear, what strategy to choose in dealing with a certain person. Sometimes you have to make a serious choice, which can cover many issues, from buying an apartment to finding a life partner. How to learn to make the right choices that will lead to positive results?
For many, the choice becomes stressful, because the future life depends on it, and the consequences of one or the other choice are not always obvious at first glance. For example, there is an opportunity to go to work in one of two organizations offering approximately equal conditions. How to understand where it will be really good? Or how to choose a life partner? Everyone seems so courteous at first …
There are many ways to figure out which one is the right choice. Cross out the trip to a psychic and fortune-telling for coffee from the list. The surest thing is to turn to scientific ways to connect with your own intuition. How can I do that?
Take some free time and go into a state of mild relaxation
Someone will need 20 minutes to complete this exercise, someone much less, especially if they have the necessary skills. Nobody should bother you at this time. Focus on yourself, if you have relaxation skills - do some exercises.
Imagine both choices in front of you
First you need to find out the essence of each proposed option. If these are two new options for work, you need to find out about them, if there is an opportunity to communicate in a team. It is impossible to tune in to any option if you have only a theoretical understanding of it.
It is easy to imagine your choices as two or more balls, each of which will represent the result you will get if you accept this option. For example, you are offered to go to two equivalent places of rest. You need to imagine one ball in front of you - rest in the first place, the other in the second. Or two different places of work. One ball is the first job, the other ball is the second.
Let the image express the overall result of the entire event, that is, in the first case, your rest in a certain place.
Now take a very close look at your images. Let it be like a game. Ask yourself what a first ride would look like as an image? Your intuition will definitely show a certain image. It could be some kind of cloud or a geometric figure.
Determine the qualities and emotional components of the images that you see
So, before you are several images of possible options. Tune in to them, describe how they look, what color, density, size, weight they are. This description is needed to more accurately tune in to the perception of the image that your imagination and intuition drew.
Now see how harmonious this image is. Do you like it? What emotions does it spread, positive or negative, does it attract or repel you?
As you might have guessed, it is by the last sensations that you can assess the qualitative difference between two or more choices in terms of their emotional content.
Suppose one image plays with bright colors, is energetic, makes you happy or pleasantly excites you. This means that this choice is quite harmonious, and if you make a decision in its favor, you will get what the image painted for you.
And, for example, the second image looks dull, chills come from it, and these sensations make you cringe. Usually negative images are dirty or gray-black colors. If you are uncomfortable with the image, the prospect of this choice is very dubious. Think soberly, is it worth choosing this option?
When making a choice, our intuition quietly whispers what we really need to choose, only we do not listen to this voice or cannot distinguish it from other screaming emotions. The method of presenting choices in images will allow you to better listen or look closer to the voice of intuition and make a more positive decision that will allow you to get one more step towards happiness.
