One of the main reasons for not fulfilling desires is a lack of understanding of what exactly is needed, what you want, and not knowing where to start if there are a lot of problems in life. A person opens websites for the fulfillment of desires, looks for what interests him, reads about many ways to get what he wants, but does nothing to change his life. There is an explanation for this.
How to determine which desire is more important
The modern world is full of stress and anxiety, and most of them relate to everyday problems: no money, bad relationships in the family, poor health, children are often sick, nothing works out in business. How to choose the most important thing from all this, what you would like to perform in the first place? Unfortunately, it so happens that it is impossible to single out the main problem and this, by the way, is quite logical. After all, a string of failures does not happen just like that, all this is a consequence of something internal, some kind of blocks, fears and subconscious desires. Yes, yes, when a person wants money, but there is no money in his life, in 90% of cases he does not want it for some reason known only to his subconscious. The same goes for other desires.
However, you can make it so that the desired will be fulfilled and quite quickly, simply, if you do not get rid of the blocks, long-standing problems will return, and events will repeat. Well, let's say a person wants money, did everything to get what he wanted, got or even won the lottery, and after a while he found himself in debt again. Or a girl suffered from loneliness, worked on her desire to get married, met a boyfriend, got married, but in a relationship she creates problems all the time and brings everything to a divorce. Understands all this, but does so to destroy the relationship. And all because subconscious attitudes are fulfilled, in other words, the subconscious mind protects a person from its own desires and there is a reason for this, no matter how strange it sounds.
Returning to the choice of the most important desire, a very interesting feature should be noted. When working on a specific desire, a completely different thing is fulfilled, that is, a different sphere of life changes, and changes for the better.
Now you can definitely get confused, right? But there is still a way to immediately change several areas of life in one fell swoop, as they say.
How to fulfill many desires at once
In order to get what you want, you need to know what you definitely don't want.
Write down in one phrase everything that you do not like in your life.
For example:
- every morning I wake up in a bad mood because I immediately think about problems and debts;
- I go to work and there again a conflict awaits me with …;
- due to the fact that I receive a small salary, I cannot afford to go to a cafe with friends;
- I have no friends, and therefore I always sit at home;
- etc.
Note, one problem - one phrase. But one problem can be described in different ways, so do it.
Now, for each negative phrase, write its counterweight, but in two or three sentences and preferably, slightly exceeding reality.
Sample writing:
- every morning I wake up in a bad mood because I immediately start thinking about my problems.
- every morning I wake up in a good mood and excellent mood. Waking up I'm looking forward to my wonderful day. While my wife (husband) prepares my breakfast, I shower in my new apartment.
When you write three positive phrases for one negative one, compose all of this into one story from your new life.
Imagine that you are giving an interview to the magazine "Caravan of stories". The interview begins with a question from the journalist: "Tell us how you became so rich and successful and how your day usually goes." And so you start telling 5 pages. This is no joke. The script for your new life should be big. Take a day or two or three on this. Trust me, these few days of writing your desired life story will turn your reality around as much as your imagination will allow.
And then, every day, sit down and read your story aloud. At first, all this will seem very boring, you will get tired of reading, but at this time the subconscious mind will work and automatically write down the words spoken aloud.
There is another explanation for the effectiveness of this method. Automatically reading the text, you will, as it were, think, involuntarily imagining what you are reading, and thus start the mental images for execution.
It is in the form of a script of a new life that you have written that several desires will come true, united into one picture of the world, your world.
