Having many friends and relatives, a person can still feel loneliness, since loneliness is not a social status, but a person's attitude. Many people are constantly around each of us, but still sometimes the thought of loneliness arises. It is unlikely that there is a person on earth who has not experienced this feeling at least once in his life, which can be safely associated with an iceberg in the ocean.
Loneliness refers to the eternal problem of relationships between people. The fear of loneliness can be caused by the experience after a painful breakup of a long-term relationship. In this case, the feeling of loneliness is accompanied by the fear of re-experiencing the pain of loss and suffering. Other people remain lonely due to the lack of a suitable person with whom to share their joy and sorrow, although they are always in search of a soul mate. Constant longing and sadness due to the fact that there are no friends with whom to share their experiences is inherent in lonely people … Oddly enough, the reason lies in the fact that all the people around you do not inspire confidence, there is no desire with one of them to discuss their problems and "cry into the vest." Because they are just acquaintances or friends, but there is no faithful friend to whom you can turn for help in difficult times. Most often, elderly people feel lonely, because children have grown up long ago, they have their own lives, and most of their friends have already passed away. And then the only outlet is the spouse or spouse who has been around for many years. Each person feels loneliness in his own way; people who seem to be strong internally and externally can be distinguished into a separate group. People come to them for advice, ask for help and support, and this is the problem. Many do not want to understand, or simply do not understand, when they come to a strong person to “cry into his vest,” that he is not made of iron and also suffers from loneliness, like everyone else, and also wants to receive help and feel support. If at least once a person felt lonely, it does not matter at all for what reasons, he automatically begins to be afraid of new difficulties. Which pushes you to make the wrong decisions, to completely immerse yourself in your problems, to search for something that is missing for a normal, full-fledged life. As a result, this leads to alienation, a person "slams" in himself, showing by his behavior that he is lonely and it suits him. Psychologists recommend not to concentrate your attention on thoughts of loneliness, but to tune in to the positive, make yourself believe that he will soon appear next a person who can understand and support in difficult times.
