In the life of every couple, sooner or later, there comes a moment when feelings cool down and it already seems that nothing can be returned. Fortunately, there are several ways you can help revive dead feelings.
1. Find all the contradictions
The longest and most unpleasant job. It is necessary to understand the reason for the extinguished feelings. When exactly this happened, what actions of the partner led to this, is it possible to return what was lost. The main thing here is honesty with oneself. If you are confident that the relationship is needed, you need to make every effort to restore the relationship and, possibly, contact a family psychologist.
2. Remember all the good things that happened
Unfortunately, over time, everything beautiful in a relationship is forgotten and partners mistakenly begin to focus on the shortcomings. It is important to remember not only the cons, but also the pros of your relationship. What exactly brings happiness, what cannot be found in another person.
3. relive romantic moments
You need to remember how you spent your time. Perhaps you had romantic dates by the river or other pleasant moments. Past events will help you to plunge into the present and relive an exciting memory.
4. Accept a person as he is
This is actually the most important point. It is important to realize that you are already an accomplished person who cannot be remade, and that you are ready to do - you choose. After all, scattered socks around the apartment are one thing, but the shortcomings that prevent you from living a full life are completely different.
5. Give thanks for all the good things that are now
The most important rule in life is to be grateful. When quarrels arise, then all the good is often forgotten, and all the achievements of the second half fade into the background. Write on a piece of paper what you value your partner for and reread. All of this will help preserve the value of the relationship.
