Rudeness on the part of other people can not only annoy, but also infuriate, leaving anger in the soul for a long time. This is bad for relationships with others, the quality of work, and even health. However, it is impossible to punish a boor with reciprocal rudeness or even more force - this will only worsen the situation.
Simple ways to deal with a boor
Unfortunately, even people on duty are not afraid to be rude, although they may face dismissal or other troubles. This is how police officers, doctors, salesmen, teachers, conductors, watchmen, etc. can behave. The easiest way to punish a person in this case is to calmly demand that he give his last name, first name and patronymic, as well as his position, and then write down this information, to complain to the boss. If we are talking about an employee in an institution, you can request a complaint book or call the boss. As a result, you can achieve a good punishment for a boor without scandals and unnecessary waste of nerves.
If you are rude in the store, and other customers begin to intervene in order to be served faster, calmly and politely inform them that the seller will treat them just as badly when their turn comes.
Surprising but true: one of the best ways to punish a boor is to feel sorry for him. Such people expect a negative reaction, they feed on other people's emotions. If you begin to publicly pity them, then not only will you not give them what they want, but also humiliate them in front of others, and this is a serious blow to the self-esteem of the boor. You can feel sorry for him in the context of his words: for example, if a person is loudly outraged that they dared to step on his foot, sincerely sympathize, ask "does the leg hurt." Another option is to use common phrases. Good choices are, "You must be a very unhappy person to behave this way," or "I'm so sorry you have nothing else to do but be rude to strangers."
How to punish rudeness
If you are faced with rudeness in a public place, try to put your opponent in a bad light, humiliate him. In this case, you do not need to use abuse or be rude in response - it is enough to conduct a conversation, constantly knocking down arrogance from the interlocutor or assenting to him. If you were told: "We've come in large numbers here, decent people can't go through," readily agree: "Yes, it's just horror, how many people have come!" To the phrase “I got dressed up anyhow, you look like a scarecrow”, answer: “And really, what am I ?! And let's go to you, will you change me?"
Use irony and bring the words of the interlocutor to the point of absurdity. When others themselves begin to laugh at the boor, he will stop attacking you so as not to aggravate his situation.
Ignore the boor. Show this person that he is an empty space. Imagine listening to music through headphones and not hearing his voice at all. Strange as it may seem, such neglect can be a good punishment for a boor.