Habits are, in principle, what a person's life consists of. It is not surprising that a number of them make our life much worse than it could be without them.
Stop flaunting your life by telling everyone and everyone about your sorrows and joys. Let your life remain only yours, you can discuss it with friends or family if you want, but certainly not just with acquaintances. This approach will add mystery to you, as well as relieve you of worries and gossip behind your back.
Get punctual. Nobody likes to waste time waiting, it is very annoying. By being late for appointments, you are showing your disrespect for the other person. If you really have to be late, be sure to warn: call or write a message.
Put your phone aside when chatting with friends. It is a little offensive when you tell something about your life, and your interlocutor at this time has buried himself in the phone and is “chatting” with might and main or just looking at the news feed. In addition, the Internet can never replace live communication.
Take life into your own hands. Do not expect that one day a fairy will come and magically change your life. Become such a fairy yourself and start managing your life on your own. This will save you a lot of time, and the mental energy that you spent on empty hopes can be spent on inventing ways to achieve your goals.
Do not think that your life has failed just because you met difficulties along the way. One way or another, every person has such a moment when his hands give up and it seems that there is only hopeless darkness beyond. Do not despair, it will pass. Never give up, fight with all your might, and one day, when the problems recede, you will realize that you have become stronger and gained precious experience.
