If you fall for the bait of the manipulator, you will become his slave for a long time. In this case, do it voluntarily. There is nothing wrong with that. After all, we were all in the role of the manipulator and his victim. But it also happens that the manipulator begins to put a spoke in your wheels and ruin your reputation. Then it becomes necessary to know who and how does it with you. There are several indications for recognizing manipulation.
Instructions
Step 1
You should immediately feel the open hypocrisy and flattery about you. A clear overstatement of your qualities, business opportunities, gossip about strangers, unnatural laughter, standard jokes and the constant translation of any topic into your opinion is a sign of a flattering person. These manipulators have a very strong defensive reaction to your anger and criticism. A person's tendency to repay emotional attacks speaks of his secrecy, deceit and duplicity.
Step 2
After the manipulator has gained trust, he begins to take an increased interest in your life experience. It is very bad when strangers criticize your plans and failed deeds. The more they know such information, the more likely it is to be turned in their favor. Also, be attentive to people interested in the dubious facts of your biography, marital status and hobbies, because it is a manifestation of high awareness and a sign of a cunning and calculating person.
Step 3
To recognize manipulation in time, be sure to pay attention to intrusive people. The constant desire to provide you with a service, even if you do not need it, is a very disturbing signal. Such people try to impose not only themselves and their friends, but also all their judgments and opinions. If you succumb to such a person, then soon without his help you will not be able to make more than one important and responsible decision.
