People are attracted to a good person. Sometimes it seems that the universe itself contributes to the fulfillment of the desires and plans of a bright personality. If you are concerned about your moral character and want to improve, do some work on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Respect others. Do not be too categorical about the shortcomings or mistakes of other people. Do not judge them harshly, because you cannot be aware of all the life circumstances of some person. Also, remember that everyone is entitled to disadvantages. Be more forgiving and tolerant of other people. Respect someone else's point of view. It is wrong to think that you are right everywhere.
Step 2
Remember that all the negativity that a person commits in relation to other people comes back to him. Try to give the world around you goodness and positive emotions. Believe that life will respond in kind to you. The positive will return to you in an increased size. Let warmth and joy come from you. Charge those around you with your cheerfulness.
Step 3
Control your negative emotions. Manage internal aggressiveness. Don't hurt other innocent people because you are upset or tired. Find a way to get rid of negative feelings: clean up, go to the gym, just relax, sleep, or take a walk in nature. These simple tips will help you keep your peace of mind.
Step 4
Get rid of self-centeredness. People who consider themselves to be the center of the universe cause pity, laughter, or annoyance. Try to think of others at least sometimes. Try to live in a way that does not hurt the interests and feelings of others. A person who is ready to go over their heads in order to achieve their own goals cannot be called a positive character.
Step 5
Fight laziness. Cultivate willpower. If you need to do something important, try to overcome your reluctance to work. Get in the habit of getting down to business right away, rather than wondering what excuse you can give in defense of your laziness. Lead an active lifestyle and get rid of apathy.
Step 6
Be a decent person. Have your own system of principles and don't deviate from it. You should not step over yourself and betray your beliefs. Then your conscience will be clear, and complete harmony will come in your soul. Do as you see fit and right, regardless of the various temptations.
Step 7
Try to understand other people. Learn to listen to your neighbor, sympathize with him and give advice. Be tactful. Feel those around you so you don't hurt them. Always come to the aid of your friends. Have compassion. People are attracted to kind, understanding, nice people.
