A person has certain qualities. Some have more developed positive, while others have negative aspects of the personality. But people tend to improve and develop themselves, although this is not easy, and sometimes exhausting work.
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, clearly define what quality you want to develop in yourself and to what extent. Analyze what you need to do this, and what obstacles you may encounter on the path of quality development. Develop several options for achieving the goal, including specific independent actions, as well as the help of others that you may need.
Step 2
It is easier to achieve the desired goal if there is a clear understanding of why you need it. In other words, a lot depends on motivation. For example, you want to hone your leadership skills because this quality is valued in large organizations and will give you the opportunity to get a position in one of them. Or you plan to develop gentleness and gentleness in order to win the heart of a loved one who values this quality. The options may be different, but the essence is the same - before you get down to business, you need to understand why to do it.
Step 3
Set deadlines. Any goal should be set at a specific time. This will encourage you to act decisively and not give up in case of failure. But keep in mind that it is not easy to develop qualities, therefore, when working on one of them, it is necessary to set optimal terms. Only then will it be possible to develop the real quality, and not create the appearance of its manifestation for a short period of time.
Step 4
Choose an example to follow. You need to know what the quality you are working on is and how it manifests itself in different situations, but seeing how this happens in practice is a completely different matter. Try to communicate more with those who can support you in your endeavor and show you how to do it by example.
Step 5
In advance, identify situations in which it will not be easy to show the necessary quality, and develop a plan for your actions. Do not be upset if everything does not go as smoothly as you would like right away. Draw conclusions, admit your mistakes and keep going in the right direction. Personal development is painstaking yet rewarding work that won't disappoint.
