Sometimes communication is very difficult for some people: it is difficult for them to get along with the interlocutor, understand him and defend their point of view. What can be done to correct this situation?
First, smile. Smiling makes a person's face more friendly and open, transforming it. This calms the interlocutor, and he will undoubtedly treat you with great trust.
Secondly, do not use harsh gestures when talking, as this behavior can scare the person away and turn him against you. For the same reason, you cannot use closed poses, for example, arms crossed on the chest.
Third, even if your status is higher than the person, never use an imperative tone. Such a speech will definitely interfere with contact, and your interlocutor will remember you as an arrogant person with whom it is impossible to build any harmonious relationship, be it friendship, love, or a boss-subordinate relationship.
Fourth, try not to use parasitic words in your speech. They prevent the interlocutor from focusing on the topic of conversation, which, quite logically, can lead to justified irritation, and in the future to conflict.
Fifth, be open. Relax and calmly state your thought, as if you have known the person your entire life. Forget all the complexes. Even if something goes wrong, a person will remember this for exactly five minutes, then he will no longer be interested in remembering it.
Sixth, always make eye contact when speaking. This gesture often tells the interlocutor that you are competent in the matter.
Seventh, if you want to establish contact with a person, make sure that the toes of your feet are always looking at him. Such a non-verbal gesture tells the interlocutor that at the moment you want or, it would be more correct to say, need a conversation with him.
Thus, the competent use of speech and non-verbal gestures will allow you to succeed in communicating with a wide variety of people. And, as you know, the disposition and trust of people is the key to all doors: to a promotion at work, to excellent exam grades and to family happiness.
